Chicory.. you know that I have a heroin addicted daughter. I tough loved the hell out of her ..hardest thing I've ever done.. she is now asking for help (who knows what will happen, but she is in rehab now).. I know that is all you want, for your son to get help. BUT, you are not a Dr. , therapist, addiction specialist , or recovery center and even if you were any of these things, a parent cannot treat their own child. transform myself said it..what are you going to do with this GIFT? Life, God, HP, whatever has come for your son.Are you going to get in the way, or move over so whatever needs to happen can happen? This isn't a magic cure, but such an opportunity for you and your son. Do not rob him of this opportnity to be a man and figure out his own life.