Welcome to our recovery comunity......
I doubt experiences will be very useful for you but...
I too lived far away from my non drinking parents.
When...by phone...I told my Mother I had quit
and was attending AA......I got a
"hmmm...that's nice Did you go to church today?"
As far as explaining to non alcoholics about alcoholism
you might find this book helpful.
Alcoholics Anonymous :
And...these are interesting
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/ar...640436,00.html http://www.dirkhanson.org/neuroaddiction.html
I'm sure others will be along with their expereinces
and information recommendations.
Blessings to you and your lady