My family is of the persuasion "If we don't talk about it it's not there" of course that never really works.
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LaFemme, I knew we were separated at birth!
yah, Erem, Mommy-dearest is being quite a *snot*, yathink? You know that she purposely left the wine within your reach for a reason. I bet my pinky toe, she has more than noticed that you quit and the change in your demeanor, emotional state, etc. i agree with the passive/aggressive tug and pull it seems. You said it was best to let sleeping dogs lie, but don't let her wipe her feet on you either.
You have very strong will....on Day 5 if someone had done that to me, I would have picked up the carafe, the glass and headed out the door...
Perhaps you can send her a message by breaking it in the sink? oops!
(mybad)