Hey There ----
I'm with Ann on this one; do for yourself for now.....and as to your question....:
"...does this mean that he really doesn't want to work on our marriage?..."
To me, what he seems to be saying with all his (in some cases conflicting) statements is that he doesn't want you to calling the shots; he wants to 'think on it' ...yeah, uh huh. Just a thought, there...
(o:
NoelleR