yes that is something I'm starting to do as well. Take some risks and refuse to stay at the same spot. I am starting the process to go back to college and also applying for a different job. I'm learning that I don't have to sit around feeling like a victim and feeling sorry for myself, I have the power to make changes in my life
It feels good when I do something toward positive change and not just staying the same.
I can be sad and angry, but I don't have to be consumed by it.