I am truly sorry ......The hardest part to many is starting over...........that means some friendships have to end or become less important............There is no way an alcholic can hang with people that drink and not eventually fall to alchol.......Been there.......done that.............Just a fact I never really caught on too............Had sobriety then would falldo to bad choices .............Had to quit softball. Too much drinkin.................No bars.......too much drinkin......there is still plenty of stuff to do ya just have to find you niche.....Good luck everyone