Can your mom sometimes watch your daughter while you go to a meeting?
Firestorm had some GREAT thoughts. We ALL want instant gratification, but sometimes there are good things that we learn from trying circumstances.
Remember to watch out for the resentments. We all have annoyances, but when we start feeling like we want to explode with frustration, that's an indicator we are building up a storehouse of resentments, which can lead to a relapse.
Keep breathing, and have a good weekend. Kids are resilient--they like instant gratification, too, but they also adjust quickly.