Sounds good my dear, and coming out of the shell you moved around in while with him, has shown what a big world is out there for you.
Good also in recognising who is and isn't ok or right for you, and taking action to prevent problems in future.
As for 3 horrible things about your ex to be, are they the same ones or do you grab 3 out of many? The same ones can get boring and lose their potency after a while, but going thru a collection can push home why you are out of his way now.
By the way, 35 is really you just coming into your best years, so go for it and grab every opportunity with outstretched arms.
God bless