Originally Posted by
oshkoshberjosh 
This means he is also getting behind the wheel of his car in this condition, thus endangering others around him.
As long as he thinks he can get away with this, he will keep doing it. Is it wrong of me to want him to get fired? A part of me wants him to start experiencing the consequences of his relapse back into active addiction.
It's hard to combine work and romance because when things do not turn out as expected, one or both become uncomfortable with having to see each other every working day.
The moral righteous thing is sounds like rationalization to impose consequences/punishment because you cannot control him.
The more time we spend focusing on other people's problems, the more likely we do not notice our own issues.