Originally Posted by
Dee74 
Deep down, you know whats best for you Teal - do that.
Noones asking you to be selfish - just acknowledge that the factor of primary importance in your life right now is your recovery.
In my case I figured if anything came before my continued sobriety I'd lose everything I had anyway - and hurt a lot of people besides.
I'm not sure how you staying clean, and rebuilding a sober life, could be 'detrimental to the health' of the other people involved in yr life.
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Thanks D, sorry if I came across as being angry or unreasonable. I'm at the stage in my recovery where I'm happy with my progress and I'm keeping my eyes on my goal, but am basically angry with the other things. I feel this will work itself out but I don't like feeling this way really (frustrated).