Originally Posted by
cinderellawkids 
Many times, past hurts and betrayals, brought back to life bring back painful emotionals and more feelings of betrayal, and that fact they were again attempting to hide something would be the same.
As far as the HS reunion, sure be friendly, by letting it go now,and be civil and friendly at the reunion In the meantime, maybe look up some other people from HS on facebook and plan to meet up with them at the reunion too, so if you feel uncomfortable, or if she brings him, no worries you have plenty of others to catch up and be friendly with.
As far as telling her about him, why bother seems she's been around enough to have an idea and has dealt with him on her own previously, she'll find out soon enough
You're right, she'll find out as all the others have. I feel much better today. Read a good book until midnight and slept in this morning
My true friends have said the same as here. Guess I'm still just a little too gullible/doormat-ish - I need some more of that attitude like CO.
As for the reunion, I'll just have to take it one day at a time and see how I feel about it when it gets here. When the first betrayal happened, I went away to college ashamed and embarrassed, and ended communication with all my HS friends. But now I know I have nothing to be ashamed of. I have a good life today, a successful career, a loving family, and trustworthy friends. I need to focus on the good stuff.
Once again, I'm grateful to SR and being able to 'talk' through this before I lashed out at either of them.
