Originally Posted by
Callie 
Would it be wrong to send some nasty messages....or should I just let it go and cut off communication with her again.
From past experience at delivering many 'nasty messages', I'd advise against it. Maybe something short, simple and to the point as in I'm done with both of you. If she'd do this to you again, consider that person toxic and cut her out of your life. Same for xabf. JMHO.
Thanks Callie, even in times I have reacted with anger, I end up feeling bad or guilty....because I acted at their level.
I was thinking maybe something like: "I think I just threw up in my mouth" or "Good luck with that".
I think I need to cry or lie down or take a bath or drink a glass of wine and watch Kung Fu Panda.
I just don't think it should bother me soooo much and it does.