Well, only you can decide if you will continue with the relationship. Only you know your own limits. It's just important to know that nothing you say or do is going to change what she does. If she wants to drink, she will drink, and you will have to deal with the bad attitudes that go along with that. If you decide to stick around, I second the motion that you find and attend Alanon meetings. Alanon and those of us on SR are only concerned about YOU and your well-being. We already know that she is going to do whatever she wants.