Hey Steve, I've been reading about the Dalai Lama and is is inspiring to me because he has such a positive outlook on life. Even though he has reason to be angry he holds no grudges or negative emotions, he is free of the emotions of anger. He says that if he was to give into feelings of wanting to reciprocate over the Tibet issues with China he would be overwhelmed with bitterness and loss sleep and his inner peace and joy. I would love to reach some fraction of his level of peace in life. He goes on to say that those he would feel those negative feelings for would not know he had those feelings, or lose sleep that he would harbor such thoughts.
I guess what I mean to convey is that you may be going back and forth pro and con in your head over this issue but is this girl worrying, crying, feeling upset that you have lost your inner peace over her situation? I don't know, but give those feelings up to your higher power and let Him deal with this situation. And may you find peace.
