Doesn't it feel great when the cloud begins to lift and you can actually see the reality of the situation? The more time I have to think, the more good reasons I can come up with to keep working on detaching. So I know exactly what you're talking about. And you're right. You are very lucky in that the person you are trying to detach from has no official capacity in your life right now. Take advantage of that aspect of the situation and keep going. Try not to look back! We can both do this....
