Originally Posted by
safetygirl 
, "Mom, you deserve someone who makes you happy. Just make sure he is rich!"
Lol, your son is awesome! (and veeeeery wise).
And you're spot on when you say that you (and I, and a lot of us here) were fighting for the dream, for the "Could Have Been", instead of realizing what we really had on our hands. The truth is painful but eye-opening.
You're doing great IMO!