Originally Posted by
coffeedrinker 
Thanks, Hammer.
I too thought about the "click" and really analyzed what that might mean. I almost didn't write it, but trying to be brutally honest in this forum.
#2 : don't know. Just don't know.
Ya know I don't think there are any "exact" right or wrong answers... but we do have the answers within us... with HP help... we can work through them to resolve the triggers.
I'm with you on wanting to move on... but for me... if I was being triggered that quickly that soon into a casual relationship... that for me would be a red flag.
Some triggers can be complex... multi layered...
#1) We are dealing with major fall out issues... having dealt with our toxic relationships...
#2) How we view the world... how we were taught to see the world.
I don't know... but I get the feeling that the symptoms you were having may relate to #1.
Don't get me wrong... both #1 and #2 require work on our part... but it may bring us closer to identifying the source of our trigger.
I hope this makes sense.