Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Oxnard (The Nard), CA, USA.
Posts: 13,982
With one GF, as we both were in recovery at the time, she slipped. I went out too. When I decided to get back in addiction treatment, she stayed out. I had to let go of the relationship. It then got ugly as she didn't want to let go of me. Eventually she got the message that I wanted growth in my life and addiction was no longer a part of my lifestyle. Learning how to be safe is very much a part of my treatment plan. She on the other hand had no interest in my safety.