singer-
I try to be realistic, I do.....it makes it easier to know I'm not the only one who contiunally is trying....and I realize a week is nothing....and it is not his drinking it is his verbal abuse that is terrible and his manipulation and extreme anger and "meanness" (not sure that is a real word). I have come to find in my situation that I blamed alcohol for his bad behavior...but I'm pretty sure it is just his personality...and well, I'm not sure that can every really change.