No, course you don't want to force anything, any recovery he pursues should certainly be on his own volition. I, personally, wasn't enough all by myself to keep myself sober.. I needed help.. ongoing help. Still do.. because I want to stay sober, and recovery is my new life, I live it, breathe it, and am a zillion times happier because of it. I hope your AH embraces help if he feels he needs it.