Neo, glad to hear things are going so well for you in sobriety. I'm also finding myself just relaxing and laughing much easier now that the obsession to drink has lifted. I also use the "one day at a time" approach...when you think about it, that's all we really have anyway. We can't change the past and the future is not yet known, so live in the present and do it with an open heart and a clear head. Thanks for sharing your awesome journey with us!