well I guess that's good news
I just had about 4 minutes of trying to understand why alcoholics won't stop drinking. Not when they're already drunk. Not when they've peed in teh closet or in their clothes. They won't stop drinking when the people who love them the most create boundaries and distance. Some loose everything and everyone dear to them, and still won't stop.
Gee. I don't remember the last time I cared about this. It's easily been months. Like, five months.
Good news-I quickly shrugged it off. Accepted that I dont' get it and never will and it ain't my problem.
Thanks SR!