Originally Posted by
gingercharlie 
But remember, he said he'd been drinking a lot to **** me off and push me away, in the hopes that I'd break up with him first... He claimed he'd been a coward for months, and hoped I pull the trigger so that he wouldn't have to.
He was VERY upset during our conversation, claiming he was so upset about having to hurt me...
Do you want to spend your life trying to make sense of his ramblings? Or do you want to accept that he doesn't want to be with you and get out with some dignity?
He doesn't make sense, he won't make sense. he is blaming YOU for his drinking. Do you accept the responsibility for that? Wouldn't a decnt human being just say, "This relationship isn't working for me. We should break up." instead of blaming you for his methods?
