Originally Posted by
gingercharlie 
He did take an ENTIRE WEEK off drinking in March when he was training for a half-marathon, in the hopes he'd lose a few pounds, which would in turn make the race slightly easier for him...
It's like, he CAN not-drink... maybe?
I'm an alcoholic. I'm also an addict. I have had months of sobriety before, but that means absolutely nothing in regards to being an addict or alcoholic. I 'quit' many times to 'prove' I could "not use/drink". It means absolutely nothing to take a break. Course, he may not be an alcoholic no one but him can decide that. Stop putting yourself through the torture of the games, you're a willing and active participant hun.. You started this exchange. He's made it clear he doesn't want to be with you, it really seems pointless to hang on whether or not he's drinking.