Gingercharlie,
I'm sorry, but he does seem like a jerk. He reminds me of an ex a few years ago. He broke up with me because, "he didn't love me anymore". His replys to me always sounded like your ex. The simple fact was, the guy was emotionally unavailable.
Consider it a blessing. He sounds selfish and arrogant, and he wouldn't be able to give you the time of day.
And trust me, you are loveable! He's just not worthy of YOUR love.