Yes, you are both right.
I am just worried sick. I really try to not get sucked in but it is so hard.
This is a double edge sword, so it seems.
I'm still wondering about recovery without the traditional 12 step. I totally understand what you are saying about him wanting to have help.
I would think if one is ready, one would take steps to grasp at anything that is offered.
He did not like the 12 step program.
But like both of you have said staying off drugs takes a lot of hard work and I believe a support system and a willingness to be ACCOUNTABLE.
My son has struggled his whole young life with accountability and also submitting to authority. He is the youngest of three boys.