Bochuck - do not undervalue three days - that is HUGE!!! Good for you. I did the same with my husband. I just felt that I had cried wolf too many times that I just wanted my actions to prove it. And it felt great and still does that I did it that way. I discovered that I am stronger than i thought I was and it feels soooooo good! Congrats on day 3 - it just gets better and better. You may have moments at times where you really want one, but it is so worth it when you don't. You get to wake up the next morning and feel sooo proud of yourself that you didn't make a jack$ss out of yourself one more day! I love that feeling! To actually feel proud of yourself and not ashamed. I don't ever want to give that up - that is what gets me through! Find "your thing" that works and you will be successful!!!