Like KingsCross says, we can do this if we do it
together. I'm on SR all the time because it helps me so much.
I don't think it's necessary to tell others that we're "alcoholics." I use the word here and in AA meetings. For the people who need to know (like my two daughters who live with me), I've just told them that I could feel myself getting too dependent on drinking, and decided I was going to quit. That way, my oldest who is 25 knows not to bring anything into the house. I figure I can decide whether or not to tell friends and other family members depending on what feels comfortable for me.
I will say that it's nice to have some people know, especially the people who love you and can support you.