theuncertainty - l love your quote!!
This is interesting. So many people say, "you're doing so great; you're so together!" Etc. Etc. And yet, here I am in this heartbreak.
I may be "together", but I pick partners that aren't. Maybe I want to be "better than"? Maybe I just feel comfortable - like they are similar to my parents? Who knows, but there is work to do on CATCHING myself next time (one day!).