Hi PraiseHim, i really feel for you! You are at least in a better position than me, mine refuses help, the first time 11 years ago, he went cold turkey, took 3 months for him to sober up, never went for any counselling or AA, now i am sure because of that he is now right back to that day, if your issues are never worked through, how can you heal, I was a big part in his recovery, but this time it seems I have no standing at all, we were so, so close. Now it feels as if I have lost my whole world, but I do have 2 beautiful girls, which keep me going and I really pray, he will find peace and realize all he is losing. Thinking of you.