Thread: Lost my Sponsee
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Old 06-11-2010, 06:39 AM
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PaperDolls
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We were supposed to meet Tuesday night and she no call, no showed on me. Showed up for the meeting right after we were supposed to meet and acted like nothing. I talked to her after wards and she said she had sent me a message (she didn't). The next day is when she said she couldn't work with me anymore (I don't like the term 'fired' either).

Turns out she thought I said something to someone about her, which I didn't, not like she thought .... instead of talking to me about it she just got pissed. I don't blame her, I've been there. I told her I want her to do what ever she needs to stay sober but warned her that the way she pulled this off was old behavior and to watch out. Later that day she called me and asked me for help at her Oxford House. Of course I was there for her, and the house.

She's been txting me every day since then. When we do get to sit down and talk I'll ask her if may be she's dragging her feet on the 4th step and used this whole fiasco as an excuse.

I won't take it personally what ever happens.
Thanks for all the input here.
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