Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Which is more important...your child's safety or your husband getting pistoff?
BINGO! One of the things that attracted me to my XAGF is her love for her own children when she was sober. That slowly slipped away on the day that I was watching her kids and a young man(autism) that I was working with and she went out to get lunch for everyone. Three hours later, and after a lot of where is my mommy, she came in stumbling drunk like nothing ever happened. Since she had no immediate family in the area, I stayed, not to take care of her, but to make sure the kids were taken care of.
Adults take care of children, that is what's normal. If an adult can't take care of themselves, then they are disqualified, and that too is normal.