Old 06-08-2010, 09:36 AM
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whereisthisgoin
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Originally Posted by Tally View Post
Maybe it might be beneficial to just drop the labels. It doesn't matter if he's an alcoholic. It doesn't matter if he drinks too much and doesn't have a problem with it. Even if you could make him see or make him realise, doesn't mean he would rush out to get help with it.

It's not an issue for him, why should he change anything?

What matters is that you feel he drinks too much and it's an issue for you.
Hit the nail on the head.

Only divorce clears up some issues - but certainly brings other. It's really not utopia on either side of the fence.
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