Originally Posted by
nodaybut2day 
I agree with Catlover. It is very hard to stop enabling the A in any way, shape or form (I'm still figuring that part out), but once you do, it feels so darn good.
I agree! But its like between do I want to take him to where ever or start a whole big argument about how he financially provides for the family and works for the money to get gas in the car that he should be able to ask for a ride if needed. Which he rarely does since he can walk or gets rides to work...
I am just pretty angry and somewhat scared because this will entitle him to a whole new source of freedom, WHICH I know I shouldn't even worry or care about since he is a grown adult...but I just worry that this will happen again (drinking and then leading to him driving)