(((Dubs)))
I don't have kids but I did watch my mother enable and financially support my drug using sibs. I can understand that your wife may not be fully able to grasp the situation, not being an addict herself. Tough situation!
I think I told you about a really cool AA meeting on the beach at the foot of Rose Street in Venice on Sunday mornings. You might check it out. I think it starts at 8:00 am and may give you a good start for your Sunday! There's another pretty good meeting at the King's Head on Second Street in Santa Monica, at 10:00 am. You have to take care of yourself first. This isn't selfish, it's self-care.
As you know, your daughter will be ready for recovery when she's ready. What made you want recovery? Something to think about?
As always, my friend, it's so good to see you!
Much love,
Lenina