so where do i go with this?
well, I have worked since i was 14 yrs old (well, doing family work really until I was 17- and it wasnt ridiculous, just chores i guess). I like to work. It makes me feel good, and i truly enjoy it most of the time, especially when i was not struggling with alcohol. But even then some.
I have a problem- on top of a problem....my 19 yr old daughter has stolen 1000 dollars from my wife's atm- who was nice enough to let her have lunch with friends last weekend- we just found out she used the card to get the cash- and disappeared for 4 days (you can't bs me- I know the crowd, see 'em every day. My wife is a huge sweetheart but she is seeing the light now. She thought I made a mistake (we have separate bank accounts for no other reason than to manage finances.)
Well- life isnt easy.. Sorry for being long..
First-
when I was a kid, when you get old enough to work you did- if you didn't fine, you're a mature adult and that is totally ok- I have friends that dont' and I am very cool with that. But dont expect others to carry your load.
Maybe I should blog this. I will keep it short. not possible at this point...
My theory is- kids (loosely used- up to 19 or so) need to get off of their asses and see the world, and work, and get the money to do that. You don't steal it. You earn it. I certainly did. Thats off my chest- I am going riding my harley and look at the beautiful things in this world- not bars by the way- not even stopping just going to the ocean.
I could explode right now- but my spiritual side is telling me to settle down and deal with the situation...the ocean does that for me.
Love you all
Sorry about the long post.
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