I'm wondering about something that Fandy brought up earlier: did you tell your mom the extent of your drinking and what happened the other night? You didn't really answer that. If your mom really knew the extent of the problem, why wouldn't she support you going to treatment?
I hope your new counselor can see the severity of the situation and talk to your mother about it. She doesn't seem to know much about addiction or recovery, even though she has a lot of opinions about it. Wishing you all the best.........:ghug3