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Thanks for your concern. Work your own program and allow me to work mine.

Although the above isn't found in tradition as far as I know, it's worked for me and my wife since we came to AA. We stay out of each other's business. Unless/Until one of us drinks, how I work my program is no one's business, not even hers. We do talk and discuss things but only when asked. By the way, nothing your bf says or does is going to keep anyone from drinking if that person has made up his mind to drink. I'd say he needs to check his ego.