Originally Posted by
dollydo 
From what I read you are not with him 24/7 how can you possibly know when and how much he drinks? If you believe what he says you are on the wrong track. "A's" lie,
You are right. I don't know how often or how much he drinks when I'm not there. Since he has his son at home (& use to never drink in front of him) and he always sounded sober on the phone, I've just assumed that he doesn't drink unless he is with me or out with boys during army training trips. Those are the only two occasions in which he admits that he drinks. But I guess he could easily sneak in a drink or two when his son isn't looking and he would still sound perfectly sober.