Daisy
I sobered in the military.. Drinking goes hand in hand. I didn't have clue I had issues until my relationship started to leave because I like to drink alot.. I was an E4.
Something tells me he has a clue by now being an E7 and in charge of others. Being in the postion he is in going to some rehab would put a big 'ding' on his record. So he might not really want to say yes he does have an issue.
But yes I say he does have an issue. Best thing you can do for him and YOU is get out and save yourself YEARS of this. Asking him to quit or slow down isn't something he is able to do. That is reality. Sorry
AG
Sober 18 years now.