Originally Posted by
tjp613 
Is this the list? Any one reason is enough...
#1 The addict is violent
#2 Stress: you have more headaches, depression, illness, suicidal thoughts
#3 Your property is destroyed
#4 Your money or property is stolen
#5 The addict is a bad influence on other siblings
#6 You can't take the lies anymore
#7 You're facing financial disaster
#8 The addict won't go into recovery
Yep, that's the list. The only one she doesn't quite fit is #1, unless you want to count a few door slams. It has been a somewhat slow process, realizing it is best that our AD go... but seeing this list staring back at me that day was a compelling confirmation.