Hey Glyon and fellow Wisconsinite!
The Posts above reference some of the symptoms you've been dealing with so I won't go into that except to let you know almost everyone experiences sleep problems after they quit. If you were like me you didn't so much lay down and fall asleep as you were unconscious before your head hit the pillow. You will get there eventually so please hang in there.
You wrote you're in a new location so I'm not sure if that's new to Wisconsin or the Madison area. Drinking is a huge part of the culture through out the State, and especially in Mad Town....so that is what it is. Plenty of people that don't drink and plenty in recovery too You really seem like you could benefit from AA for a lot of reasons, please consider checking a meeting out.
Look forward to reading more after your Dr. appointment. Good luck!