Dream, I think it helps to see people with so much time interacting here too. You should also remember that pennies add up to dollars. I only have 6 months, but I have gained from listening to someone with 6 days or hours before, I think. Feelings are never "wrong," but if we could just keep learning to progress to the next segment of them...It makes it so that the simple ("don't drink") does look simple, when it never used to. We don't let ourselves see the simplicity when we stay stuck in a small period of thoughts that challenge sobriety. That's when we have to outthink the momentary thoughts and shovel them out.