Originally Posted by
1va 
He came over this weekend, his parents said he could stay the night since he had a couseling appointment in the morning
(His mom drives him there and pays the copay since he has no money).
First thing he did was ask me if I could fill up his gas tank,
He said he needed to go pick up his clothes and seizure meds,
He asked me to make an appointment for a couples couseling session,
He sounds like a little boy. No car. No job. No money. Looking for handouts, someone to take care of him and allow him to be a little boy, without a care in the world, forever. Is this what you want out of a partner?
What's in it for you? Do you think he'll magicaly change and grow up into the person you want him to be?
You can stop this anytime, whenever you are ready or accept him as the child he is. It's the in between, wishful thinking stuff, that's hell.