You're doing great...stay strong. Your AH is displaying a lot of the behaviors my AH (soon-to-be-ex) did as well. My AH would manipulate conversations... taking different angles to see which will work...trying to see if he could sneak back into my life...I had to just close my eyes and ears to it all! It's not easy...it's difficult because you don't just turn off your emotions...these feelings don't just go away. But you have to just focus on you and your future...one day at a time...one step at a time!!!
I wish you the best...email anytime if you want to chat!