She basically said 'we're family, you know the way I am, you're talking nonsense' and hung up.
She let you know you're the one with a problem, not her. And she's right. She's a problem and you're responsible for finding solutions. She's a sober version of her son (echoing anvil), and what you
want to happen isn't what
is happening in reality. It's all on you again Callie. Get PO'd, whine a little if you want, but you'll still have to do something or stay stuck on the hamster wheel.