Originally Posted by
cynical one 
Him: You stupid B, you're a lousy mother, and I'm going to report you.
You: <click>
Time to get the courts involved, you're spending way too much time with an abuser. Once an outside party starts doing the supervision you have no reason to have contact with him...just have his people call your people.
Agreed, 100%. As far as discussing any concerns in regards to your daughter with him, I think your expectations of him are entirely too high.
He's
not going to be a concerned, rational, logical, loving parent.