Also I restated my will to live alone. Hopefully he can live somewhere else now. YAY.
What convinced me was getting ready to go to work while he stays there in his boxers watching football. And when I come back from work, gym, grocery shopping, or whatever, he is ALSO watching football.
I dislike waking up to a game playing on TV. It makes me soooooooooo tired... I would like to be with someone who gets out there... one of my red flags is when I appear like the "sporty, outgoing" one!! sheesh!!