Originally Posted by
sojourner 
One of the original questions was whether anyone had ever experienced letting their loved one live at home where they "found" recovery. So far, no one has posted an affirmative to that. Interesting.
Here I am, but it involved her being in a nasty car wreck and getting Hep C. Those things were and are completely beyond the control of me and my husband, and only she could own them.
I had to work really hard at recovery for her to stay here. My husband didn't want to permanently kick her out and I wasn't going to make that decision for him. So I had a choice, move out or learn how to deal with both of them. I chose the latter. There were times when I had to show her the door but it always remained open for her, when she was ready to do the work.