Originally Posted by
lightseeker 
As I think about it I sometimes feel that whatever codie issue that I am working through takes a backseat to the pain that accompanies life with an active abuser and/or one that is in and out of sobriety. And that makes me reluctant to post. Which I know is not the best mind set.
Thank you for the push I needed. I feel the same way. This forum is most often used by people in crisis related to substance abuse, and it makes me reluctant too. Not any more though
